Thursday, March 13, 2014

Blair in His Own Words


Bill’s Take-Aways  from
Tony  Blaire  A Journey: My Political Life 
 Vintage; Reprint edition, Random House, September 2, 2010; read Feb 2014

from Amazon.com


I picked up this book during a period last year when I was worn out. I needed a diversion from strategizing.  I have enjoyed this book as Tony Blaire writes for the common reader, not to political experts. He writes about things that have had my interest for years, especially the peace in Northern Ireland which in and of itself is brilliant.  I remember seemingly daily news of the violence between Catholics and Protestants that completely bewildered me at the time.  Ironic as it is, I found his writing inspiring me to think about leading and strategy ….     The locations are from the Kindle version of the book.  This is from the first half of the book.

Some of these simply are good advice while others prompted me to think much deeper about what it is I am spending my time on

3742-4 ch 6 Peace in Northern Ireland
The incident raised an interesting reflection on the nature of the PM’s job: you have to absorb a large amount of abuse.  Not crude shouting down or protests, but your motives constantly questioned or traduced, your words misunderstood or misrepresented, your attempts to do good seen as attempts either to further your own interests or even to do bad.

4162 ch 6 Peace in Northern Ireland
In conflict resolution, small things can be big things. This is not just about gripping, it is also about putting aside your view of what is important in favour of theirs.  And not being prissy about finding such things below your pay grade.  Your pay grade covers anything important to the parties you are serving: as defined by them. … if it matters to them, it matters to me.

4184
So the small things matter because in the minds of the key parties, they often loom large with a perspective we can’t always grasp.
<< Application - leading a team & serving & leading  >>

4199
In the creativity, you cannot always think of everything, but you should be wary of doing anything that forfeits trust.

4246 context of having a 3rd party mediate in conflict resolution
The point is the outside party does not just help negotiate and mediate: they act as a buffer, a messenger and, crucially, as a persuader of good faith in a climate usually dominated by distrust.
They also help define issues and indeed turning points.

4281…4286
Realise that for both sides resolving the conflict is a journey,  a process, not an event.  Each side takes time to leave the past behind. … the “ways” have to be “unset” so that change can make progress.

** 4596-4607  ch 7 We govern in Prose, context Chamberlain and the Munich Agreement with Hitler
Chamberlain was a good man, driven by good motives. So what was the error? The mistake was in not recognizing the fundamental question.  And here is the difficulty of leadership: first you have to be able to identify that fundamental question. 
…you might think the question was: can Hitler be contained? That’s what Chamberlain thought. And, on that balance, he thought he could. And rationally, Chamberlain should have been right. Hitler had annexed Austria and Czechoslovakia. He was supreme in Germany. Why not be satisfied?    But that wasn’t the fundamental question. The fundamental question was: does fascism represent a force that is so strong and rooted that it has to be uprooted and destroyed? Put like that, the confrontation was indeed inevitable. The only question was when and how.
In other words, Chamberlain took a narrow and segmented view – Hitler was a leader, Germany a country, 1933 a moment in time: could he be contained? 
Actually, Hitler was the product as well as the author of an ideology that gripped several countries, of which Germany was one. By 1938, fascism was culminating in a force…. [Chamberlain] misunderstood the question and so answered wrongly. 

<  Chamberlains legacy as PM was overshadowed by his failure to prevent Europe from going to war with Hitler, thus making Blaire’s point all the more apropos. -  This begged the question for me  - in my plan of attack to see my end vision reached, have I discerned the right question and thus the most effective course of action?
a.      Compare Continuum of Activities with what I have been doing last several years.
b.      Adjust my activities based on where the work is at in the different areas, thus telling me what needs to happen, where and with whom. 
c.      Translate that into team action  >


4941 ch 8 Kosovo
There was a desire to pacify, but not to resolve.

4948
…to recognize the necessity of the moment and act.

5472 ch 9 Forces of Conservatism
That’s the funning things about decisions as prime minister: some are about doing things, but equally important are those about not doing things. They all come thick and fast, and sometimes you don’t recognize them as decisions. They tend to be the things you say “no” to. 

5652  context: institutional & systems reforms
Structures beget standards. How a service is configured affects outcomes.

6222 ch 10 Managing Crises
…don’t pretend to be other than you are.

6368 context: Opposition
…they didn’t really want us to lose the fight, but a bit of kicking might serve us right.

6735 (social democracy? )
…bring the private sector into the running of public services.

7282-7289  ch 12 9/11 “Shoulder to Shoulder”
Context  -  Islam and her reactions to 9/11
…. [those Muslims] who condemn the terrorists and their world view.  But…even this group have not yet confidently found their way to articulating a thoroughly reformed and modernizing view of Islam.  In other words, it is true they find the terrorism repugnant and they wish to be in alliance with the Western nations against it, but this does not yet translate into an alternative narrative for Islam that makes sense of its history and provides a coherent vision for its future. What this means is that very often countries in the Arab and Muslim world will offer their people a disconcerting and ultimately self-defeating choice between a ruling elite with the right idea, but which they are reluctant or fearful to advertise, and a popular movement with the wrong one, which they are all too keen to proclaim.

...it’s a fundamental struggle for the mind, heart and soul of Islam.


Tuesday, February 25, 2014

Seeing Through the Fog

Get this on AmazonBill's TakeAways from

Bill's TakeAways from
Ed Dobson, Seeing Through the Fog: Hope When Your World Falls Apart, David C. Cook Publishers, 2012, read in early Feb 2014

Dr. Ed Dobson was diagnosed amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS), often referred to as "Lou Gehrig's disease"  and this book recounts his battle mentally, emotionally, spiritually to deal with it, live with it and find purpose beyond imminent disability and death. These are some of the gems I gleaned from reading it this week.  I am so glad I Ed wrote it…and that I read it.

See also his blog: http://edsstory.com/ which is a great companion to this book.

The locations numbers below are from the Kindle version of his book.

311 ch 2 The Fog,  quote context is Ed’s first Thanksgiving dinner with his family after being diagnosed
As I look back on that day, I wonder why people who have had the air knocked out of them try so hard to give the impression that it didn’t hurt.  Why do we put up such brave fronts? Why didn’t I feel I could be honest with my family? 

334
God, I want to live. Help me to make the choices that will help me to live.
…every day is a struggle between choosing to die and choosing to live.


397 ch 3: Connecting with Others
It is one broken person talking to another broken person. And there is power in that.

Ch 6 Giving Thanks 567
…I have concluded that I am not obligated to give thanks for the disease. Rather, I am obligated in the midst of the disease to be grateful for other things.  [italics his]

587
So whatever you are facing right now, when you wake up in the morning, I challenge you to pray, “Lord, thank You for waking me up this morning. “

602
It is very difficult to see His grace when everything seems to have gone wrong in your life.

613
…focus on what I can do, not on what I can’t do

659-662 ch 7 When God is Silent
….God has answered my prayer with either ‘no’ or ‘wait.’ And I find this answer rather unsatisfying! If God has the power to heal and if God really loves me, then why in the world is He not healing me? So where do I find God when heaven is silent?  

Over the years, I have found Him in the family and friends He has put around me.  They have become the hands of God. They have become the face of God. They have become the feet of God. They have become the heart of God in my life.

741 [about Jesus and his humanity, being forsaken by God from the cross]
He felt abandoned by God. Whether or not God actually turned His back on Jesus, I don’t’ know. What I do know is that Jesus felt forsaken by God.  I find great encouragement in the idea that the Son felt abandoned.



954-958 [putting this verse on index cards all over the house/car/office/by bed….]
God has said, “Never will I leave you: never will I forsake you.”  So we say with confidence, “The Lord is my helper: I will not be afraid. What can mere mortals do to me?” Hebrews 13:5-6

…Whenever I began thinking about the future and start sinking in the fog, I would take a five-minute time-out.   I would look at the card and repeat the verses for five minutes. The first time I quoted them, I barely believed a single word. But as I repeated them, they began to sink into my mind and soul.  By the time I had finished, I was refocused on the present and not distracted by the future.

1032 ch 10 Healing  [a pastor came to pray and anoint Ed with oil but cautioned him…}
“Don’t’ become obsessed with getting healed, Ed,” he said. “If you get obsessed, you will lose your focus. Get lost in the wonder of God, and how knows what He will do for you.

This is some of the best advice I have every received.  And he was right: I had become too focused on my own disease and my own future.

I needed to shift my focus from myself to my creator.


1044-1047 [story of the blind man in Jericho & Jesus]
“Jesus, son of David, have mercy on me!”
Even though I have read this story many times … reading it as a man with ALS allowed me to see it anew and inspired me to pray, “Jesus, son of David, have mercy on me.”  I am not telling God what to do. I am not believe that He will heal me if I am without any doubt.   I am not asking God to heal me if it is His will.  I am simply throwing myself at His mercy.  And just like the blind man, my faith is exercised every time I pray for mercy.

1063
“I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships….”  2 Cor 12:7-10

He found that God’s grace was sufficient to face all of the difficulties and trials of life, and therefore he welcomed such challenges. Incredible! …. But I am not at the point where Paul was: I don’t delight in ALS…  But I read Paul’s story and am inspired to keep looking for that strength, to open myself completely y to God’s grace and allow it to lessen the burden of my disease.

1078-1088
From a Biblical perspective, healing is first being at peace with God… the second aspect… is to live at peace with others. …The final element needed for healing is being at peace with yourself and your circumstances.  Phil 4:11  “…for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances.”

1120
Jesus knew the limitations of living His life in the flesh. And if He did that, I can do this, too.
[re: Jesus’ incarnation and putting aside the outward expression of His glory…]
1267 ch 12 God in the Past, Present and Future
But I did find God in the people around me. So whre is God when life falls apart? He is there in the people He puts around us.

1279
They are God’s grace when I need it most. They are the presence of God in my life.

1289
I have set three goals for my future. First, I want to speak for as long as I can. Second, when I can no longer speak, I want to write as long as I can. Third, when I can no longer speak or write, I want to live as long as I can. That’s it. Those are my goals.

1334 [words Ed’s dad often used to tell him]
You are indispensable until your work on earth is done.

1387 ch 13 Heaven
Of his longing to go and be with Christ, Paul stated that to do so would be ‘better by far” than what life on earth can be (Phil 1:23). Those three words always stuck with my dad, and when my mother died, he put it on her gravestone. So what is heaven like? ….

1406
…It’s all the wonder and joy of the here and now. Except, it’s better by far.




Wednesday, January 1, 2014

The Wisdom from Rocky

It will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me or nobody is going to hit as hard as life. But it ain't about how hard you hit, it is about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward, how much can you take and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done!

From "Rocky Balboa" the movie